One of the most beautiful aspects of a thriving third place is the delicate balance between those who are always there, the regulars (we refer to ours as Good NAbors), and those who have just walked in for the first time. Ray Oldenburg described third places as welcoming environments that thrive on this blend, where long-time participants and newcomers can interact in a way that fosters genuine community.
At Good NAtured, we see this in action every week. Our regulars bring consistency, comfort, and a sense of place. They help define the space’s culture, greeting others with warmth and offering guidance to those who are new. But the newcomers who bring spontaneity, curiosity, and new stories keep the space dynamic. Together, they create a social current that makes the environment feel familiar and exciting.
When you walk into Good NAtured for the first time, it doesn’t take long to feel the rhythm of the space. Whether it’s someone striking up a casual conversation with you at a table or a friendly facilitator inviting you to try a new activity, our third place is designed to make you feel included without pressure. We know that showing up can be the most challenging part, and we do everything possible to make that step easier.
This balance of regulars and newcomers isn’t just charming; it’s vital. It allows the space to serve as both a sanctuary and a frontier. For some, it’s a place of refuge where they know what to expect and who they’ll see. For others, it’s a place to discover something or someone completely new. It is this interplay that gives third places their unique character and value.
In many ways, regulars become the informal stewards of the space. They might not wear name tags or work behind the counter, but they help set the tone. They know where the supplies are kept, when to arrive for their favorite events, and how to make new folks feel at ease. This gentle leadership builds a sense of ownership and pride in the space, deepening their commitment to its success.
Meanwhile, newcomers help prevent stagnation. Their fresh perspectives invite change, inspire new programming, and remind the community to stay open and adaptable. Their presence allows regulars to stay engaged and avoid cliques or complacency. In this way, newcomers are not just visitors; they are active participants in shaping the future of the third place.
At Good NAtured, we actively support this flow by hosting events like our Newcomers Meetup, where first-timers can dip their toes in the water alongside others exploring the space. We also celebrate our regulars by encouraging them to share their knowledge, stories, and favorite ways to participate, featuring them in social media spotlights or testimonial boards.
Whether you love the comfort of a familiar place or seek out new experiences, Good NAtured offers room for both. Our goal is to maintain a space where that exchange happens naturally, where people show up as they are and leave feeling a little more connected.
The beauty of a third place lies in its ability to be more than the sum of its parts. It’s not just about who’s there, but how everyone contributes to a shared sense of belonging. Regulars and newcomers are essential, and when they meet in the right environment, something magical happens.
So whether you’ve been to Good NAtured dozens of times or have yet to visit, we hope you’ll join the flow. Your presence matters here.
About Good NAtured
Good NAtured is a community-centered, third place in Sioux Falls. Through workshops, events, and casual conversation, we offer a welcoming space where creativity, connection, and belonging come naturally.
It’s like Cheers met Pinterest and decided to host a book club. That’s Good NAtured, Our Third Place where real community hangs out. Stop by and find your place with us.